No Blame, No Pain.
Often when something or someone disturbs or angers us, our first response is to assign blame. We usually blame someone else – “it’s their fault; they did it!” We find this the easiest option, and it means we don’t need to look at ourselves and own our own part of the problem. If we understood that everything which happens to us we have attracted in some way, then we could perhaps stand back, observe, and learn. After all, ‘like attracts like’ doesn’t it? Another option when s